Updated: Oct 25, 2018
Your relationship will always reflect back what you are needing to heal.
The person you choose to spend your life with is always going to be your biggest mirror. Your relationship will always reflect back what you are needing to heal, what you are needing to shift perspective on, where you are lacking compassion, the areas of your life you are needing to shine more love onto. What is your relationship showing you that you need to heal now?
I am going to begin sharing some pretty raw and vulnerable stories about my life, my growth and particularly my relationship.
My relationship with my husband is my biggest and most profound vessel for growth, joy and also pain.
People have often said comments about my relationship. Nice ones don’t get me wrong. Ive been introduced as the most amazing couple. I feel people look on with envy as they see our connection and the path we are walking together.
“Did Dylan go to that course with you? I wish my partner would do stuff like that with me”
“Did Dylan do that for you? I wish my husband would be romantic like that”
But what you can’t see from the outside is how much Dylan and I have had to heal in ourselves to actually be together. We are with out a doubt soul mates. The connection right from the very second we united was the strongest pull I have ever felt. And my relationship with this man has been the most healing experience. He is my strongest love and fulfilment I have in my life.
But in all the love I have for him and for us, also means our relationship has the power to cause the most pain.
So I understand not having your needs meet or being stuck in your relationship and how painful that can be.
What is showing up for through your relationship that is needing to be healed?
What parts of your relationship are showing you where you need more love for yourself, more compassion for yourself, more time for yourself.
Take a second right now and ask yourself, what is it that i'm craving from my partner? Then take that answer and ask yourself another question. Am I also craving this thing because I need to give that to myself?
Issues in relationships either make it or break it. regardless of the outcome there is always an opportunity to become stronger and more connected to your true self through the issues that arise within the union of two souls living life side by side.
My relationship feels as if we have been to hell and back through all that we have dealt with just to stay together. Through some of the hardest and most painful times we have had to wholeheartedly commit and choose each other unconditionally, even when it felt like we should probably give up.
If Dylan and I are undoubtedly soul mates meant to walk the path of life together and our relationship almost didn’t make it on more then one occasion. Then how many other couples who are really meant to be together are struggling and in pain and are possibly not going to make it?
Imagine not living life with your soul mate because you didn’t have the tools to heal the relationship and yourself enough to stay together.
I also share this because almost all of my clients so far are coming to me needing support, understand and guidance with their relationship.
It is apart of our path to work with healing relationships as well as healing individuals. Because I believe lots of other couples out there are needing support.
With the healing, commitment and knowledge we have gained upon the way, we have grown from strength to strength. On the other side of every challenged we have faced we became more connected then ever before.
Our journey to share that knowledge and understanding with other couple who need it starts now.
We will be both taking separate consults with people and also holding healing and connecting courses for couples. I know deep in my sprit that Dylan and I can hold a strong and compassionate space for other couples because we have been there. We have been to the depths of ugliness that a relationship can be put through. We know how much individual and relationship healing can be needed. We have been there, done it, seen it and come out the other side each time stronger and more connected then ever before.
So there is hope for any relationship, as long as both people are truly committed to the healing and to being together. We are proud to be sharing and holding space for relationships and being apart of the hope for others.
If you would like to honour yourself and your relationship though inner healing The heal your relationship package might be what you are looking for more.
Until next time,
Intuitive healer, writer, owner of Soul Nourish. Passionate about shifting you from where you are into where you want to be and healing from a soul level in the process.
Soul Nourish is about helping you shift what isn't working, so you can live life in a way that brings you joy, by removing your subconscious and energetic blocks. whether you want to manifest a healthy body, soulful relationship, confidence, purpose or peace. We begin to create these things naturally as we shift what is blocking us from receiving. With my intuitive gifts, powerful vibrational remedies, subconscious mind work, & energy work.
Some of the tools used are Homeopathy, Neuro-Emotional Technique, Education and Coaching with transformational tools & Universal energy healing.
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