Are you not getting what you need from your partner?

Updated: Feb 24, 2019

If you are feeling a lack of love in your relationship or a lack of anything in in life. This story will help you....

I was feeling a lack of love and connection from my partner and my thoughts wandered to..

"I need more from him. I want to feel more love and affection. He’s my husband he’s meant to love me."  And very quickly my intuitive guidance came through and said….

Be loving! 

If you want more love and affection from him then be loving towards him. 

It was so simple yet so profound. 

My energy immediately changed and in being loving towards him I no longer felt a lack of love because I was in vibrational harmony with love. I then didn’t need anything from him anymore, I was already in a state of Love.

It is not his job to make me feel loved, it is my job to choose love. 

There is such a valuable lesson in this and it can be spread to anything in life. 

Our ego and subconscious mind are basically there to find the lack in our life. There’s never enough money, time or love. You are never confident or worthy enough. Our ego’s will blame someone else behaviour is responsible for how we feel.

But if you can stop and be present with these thoughts of lack and realise that you are not your thoughts. You essence is separate from the ego. You are a soul & sprit. You are a soul full of love and abundance. You can tap into that, feel into your true essence.

Drop into your heart and soul rather then feeding the thoughts in your mind. 

You are not your thoughts. 

No one else can fix your problems or give you the happiness and love you desire. 

You are the happiness you desire, you are the love you crave.

How are you going to live into your love? 

How are you going to choose joy? 

Will you choose your thought with love and respect in this moment? 

You never need anything out side of yourself, you simply need to remember and feel into the love that is always available to you. 

Feel the love that you are. 

The answers to everything you are needing lies within you.

If you want more love-be loving. 

Not only is this going to give you what you need it will also trickle out to others and cause a beautiful ripple affect of love and joy all around you. 

If you are going to look out side of yourself for guidance, love and motivation then you are giving your power away. You are always going to need someone else to feel happy and that means they have the power to make you sad too. 

When you choose you,

When you choose to align with what it is you want to feel. 

That is powerful,

That is owning your power and your worth. 

You live in a law of attraction world. So as soon as you align with the energy and vibration of what is it that you are wanting, that's when the magic can happen. 

That is when the magic will happen. 

I hope this helps you to choose you and the love you are wanting. 

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Until next time,

Melissa Jane

Melissa Jane, 

Intuitive healer, writer, owner of Soul Nourish.  Passionate about shifting you from where you are into where you want to be and healing from a soul level in the process. 

Soul Nourish is about helping you shift what isn't working, so you can live life in a way that brings you joy, by removing your subconscious and energetic blocks. whether you want to manifest a healthy body, soulful relationship, confidence, purpose or peace. We begin to create these things naturally as we shift what is blocking us from receiving. With my intuitive gifts, powerful vibrational remedies, subconscious mind work, & energy work. 

Some of the tools used are Homeopathy, Neuro-Emotional Technique, ThetaHealing, Education and Coaching with transformational tools & Universal energy healing.

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